we have a friend. she is Asian. she doesn't think before she speaks...problem!!! we have a tradition of making everyone a "baby" (really a huge loaf of home made bread) for their birthday... names and everything! today we were planning when we would make Spencie his "baby". our Asian friend unfortunately had ballet today so she was unable to make it to the actual creation of his "baby". upon realizing this she turned to us and bluntly stated, "i can't make a baby with you". yes Asian, this is correct........that's all!